Child Custody
According to Federal Law No. 28 of 2005 for Personal Affairs, the biological mother of the child is the custodian, and the father is the guardian. Custody involves the day-to-day care of the child, which is usually granted to the mother without interfering with the right of guardianship awarded to the father.
At all times, the father is responsible for providing for the child financially. He is responsible for providing shelter, expenses for food, medical care, education and other necessities.
Custody and guardianship are two separate issues that must be addressed individually, as parents do not share equal responsibilities for a child in the UAE.
The courts always act in the best interests of the child, and therefore, unless given reason to believe otherwise, they keep him/her in the physical custody of the mother while being under the guardian's (father's) supervision.
According to Article 156 of Federal Law No. 28 of 2005 for Personal Affairs, a mother's custody of her son concludes when he reaches the age of 11, and for her daughter, it concludes when she reaches the age of 13. The father, being the guardian, can claim custody thereafter.
As set out in Article 143 and 144 of the law, a custodian must be:
• Rational
• Mature enough and have attained the age of puberty
• Honest
• Able to bring up and take care of a child
• Free from infectious diseases
• Not have been sentenced for a crime of 'honor'
In addition to the previous conditions:
If the custodian is the mother, she must:
• Not remarry unless the court decides it's in the best interest of the child
• Share the same religion as the child
If the custodian is the father, he must:
• Have a suitable woman living in his home to care for the child (such as a female relative)
• Share the same religion as the child
Father's Custody and Extension of Custody
The mother also has the right to claim the extension of the custody period until their son finishes his education and their daughter gets married. In this case, the mother has to prove that she has been good with the children, i.e. through their school performance reports, good medical health history, etc.
The father can claim custody of their son if he feels that their son is becoming too soft in nature by staying with the mother and that he would want him to grow up to be more responsible. In both circumstances, the judge will decide the case.